My heart has been heavy as I just read a story about an unplanned pregnancy and I had to take a minute to be serious…
Obviously, we have become a poster family for adoption. It’s no secret in our home. We can’t even begin to tell people how much we have been blessed with incredible children, wonderful birth mothers and fathers, and amazing birth families.
Our lives have been enriched by the life-long relationships we have built with our birth mothers; these incredible women are our personal heroes. I personally can’t get over their selflessness, and in light of all that adoption can be I also can’t help but wonder…
Why is abortion seemingly so easy and adoption so hard?
Okay, let me take a step back; I know abortion really isn’t an easy decision but that’s just my point. Abortion can leave permanent psychological and emotional scars; it’s the debate over the quality of the life of the mother and what really is human life. Abortion is all the other emotionally charged issues that divide society wrapped into one lightning rod issue; but my question to those considering it- why not adoption?
I’ve been fortunate to know and love both those who have placed children for adoption and those who have had abortions; I wouldn’t pretend to think that either decision was ever easy. Rest assured in both cases there is significant and real loss; but in my limited scope, the purposes of both fulfill similar hopes. Both with adoption and abortion the birth mother can rebuild and grow despite an unplanned pregnancy, and both options are built exclusively on the women’s right to choose.
